How tall are you? What size are you?
5’ 6” and plus sized/BBW
What does a Professional Submissive do?
A Professional Submissive (or Pro Sub) is a service provider who takes on the submissive role in a BDSM or kink scene. Clients may choose to take the Dominant role, or participate in duo sessions where both the client and Pro Sub submit under the guidance of a Professional Dominant.
A Pro Sub is not a prostitute. Professional submissives do not perform sexual acts (such as intercourse, oral sex, or masturbation) in exchange for money. Sessions are focused on consensual BDSM dynamics, impact play, power exchange, and role play — not sexual services.
Why book a Professional Submissive?
There are many reasons people choose to book a Professional Submissive for BDSM sessions. Common ones include:
- Experienced kink provider — Play with a skilled submissive who understands impact play, role play, and power exchange without shame or judgment.
- Finding the right partner — Hire a professional when it’s difficult to find safe, compatible play partners who meet your needs.
- For new Dominants — Practice Domming with a Pro Sub who provides feedback and guidance, helping you grow your skills in a safe environment.
- For new submissives — Explore submission with an experienced submissive who can model communication, boundaries, and healthy dynamics.
- Play without strings — Enjoy BDSM play without emotional attachment, while still respecting consent and safety.
- Expand your horizons — Try new kinks, scenes, and dynamics in a safe, professional setting designed for exploration and fun.
What is a typical Professional Submissive session like?
Every BDSM session is customized to the client’s preferences, but most follow a familiar structure:
- Welcome — You’ll be greeted in the dungeon or play space. You’ll have time to settle in, remove coats or bags, use the washroom, and, if it’s your first time, take a quick tour of the dungeon.
- Negotiation — We’ll spend 5–10 minutes reviewing your interests, limits, and goals. Then we’ll confirm boundaries, safe words, and the activities we’ve agreed on. This ensures we’re aligned and ready to begin the scene.
- Scene — The bulk of the session focuses on negotiated activities, such as impact play, power exchange, or role play. Whether you want a structured scene or informal exploration, the time is centered on your desires.
- Aftercare — We’ll close with grounding and debriefing. This may include chatting about what went well, what could be adjusted for next time, and giving you time to come back down to earth before leaving.
Do you take outfit or clothing requests for sessions?
Yes! I’m happy to accommodate outfit requests when possible. If I already own the clothing or fetishwear, I’ll do my best to have it ready for your BDSM session.
You’re also welcome to gift me specific clothing items in advance so they’ll be available for future play. Since I am plus-sized, please check with me first so I can review the size chart and confirm the fit before you purchase anything.
Where do you facilitate BDSM sessions?
I offer professional submissive sessions in a few different locations:
- Client’s space — Your hotel room or private residence (must be safe and appropriate for play).
- Local dungeon space — In Colorado Springs, sessions can be held at the local dungeon. In this case, I will make the booking on your behalf.
- Other venues — If you have access to a safe, private play space, we can discuss options during our planning.
Please note: it is the client’s responsibility to book and cover the cost of the session space, unless we are using the local dungeon in Colorado Springs, which I will arrange.
How do I book a session with Marsha Darling?
To book a BDSM session with me, please fill out my Session Request Form. This form helps streamline the booking process and ensures I have all the information I need to create a safe and satisfying experience.
When submitting your request:
- Be clear about what type of session you’re interested in (impact play, role play, duo session, etc.).
- Share your experience level (new to BDSM, experienced, curious).
- Confirm any boundaries, limits, or accessibility needs.
Once I receive your request, I’ll review it and follow up to confirm availability, rates, and session details before finalizing the booking.
How should I prepare for my session? / Session etiquette
To ensure your BDSM session runs smoothly, please follow these etiquette guidelines:
- Hygiene — Arrive freshly showered and clean. Light deodorant or fragrance is fine, but please avoid heavy cologne.
- Eat beforehand — Have a light meal 1–2 hours before your session so you have energy. Bring water to stay hydrated.
- Sobriety — Do not arrive under the influence of drugs or alcohol. If you do, you will be turned away at the door and your deposit will not be refunded.
- Punctuality — Arrive on time, not early. If you are late, your session will still end at the scheduled time. If you’re running late, please message me as soon as possible so I know you’re safe.
- Clothing — Wear whatever makes you comfortable. If you’ve made an outfit request or gifted clothing, confirm details with me beforehand.
- Payment — Have your session fee ready in an unsealed envelope to present upon arrival.
- Respect & safety — Follow negotiated boundaries and safe words. Respectful, consensual behavior is required at all times.
- Aftercare — Allow time to decompress and ground yourself after the scene. Aftercare is part of every session.
- Hygiene (Again) — Please wash your hands when you arrive before any play begins.
What are your rates?
My professional submissive session rates are:
| Service | Rate | Details |
|---|---|---|
| BDSM Session (In-Person) | $400/hr+ | Sessions tailored to your negotiated interests |
| Consultation – Virtual (30 min) | $100 | Online consultation to discuss interests & boundaries |
| Consultation – In-Person (1 hr) | $225 | Face-to-face discussion before booking a full session |
Sessions are customized and begin at the listed rates. A consultation is recommended for new clients.
When and how do I pay for a session?
To secure your booking, an initial deposit is required. The remaining balance is due in cash at the start of your session. Please bring payment in an unsealed envelope and have it ready to present upon arrival.
What is your cancellation policy?
- Deposits — A deposit is required for all bookings and is non-refundable.
- Rescheduling — If you need to reschedule, your deposit will be applied to the new date as long as you reschedule within 30 days.
- Late cancellations — If you cancel within 3 hours of your booked session or take longer than 30 days to reschedule, your deposit will not carry over.
- Illness — If you are feeling unwell on the day of your booking, please reschedule for a later date when you are feeling better.
What are your health & safety practices?
Health, safety, and accessibility are central to every session with Marsha.
- Vaccinations — Marsha is fully up to date on all vaccinations, including COVID-19, measles, and others.
- Cleanliness — Equipment and play spaces are cleaned and sanitized before and after each use.
- Safe play — All sessions include confirmation of limits, boundaries, and safe words to ensure consent and safety.
- Accessibility — If you have any accessibility needs or accommodations, please include them in your booking form so they can be addressed in advance.
Curious about something not covered here? I welcome your questions — reach out anytime.